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Originally Posted by stimpee

Hey nice pics. Keep it fun. Dont think about those "FEW other really hot/nice/friendly
women in the wings". Concentrate on the here and now. Easy to get distracted. There may well be plenty more fish in the sea, but catching one, and one that meets your requirements is a nightmare. Hang on in there, this girl looks like she accepts you for who you are, and I hope you do too. I never had the internet to help me when I was making these steps...

you're right, i've STOPPED hanging out, and trying to
meet other girls.. (ok, there is one named simone,
and she's VERY cool, but with her, it really is just
being a friend)...

and i am trying to spend more time with her..

we've gone THROUGH A LOT.. and there are times
i'm very frustrated that we can't meet and do more things together.

it just seemed like she was making excuses constantly..

well that's changed a lot in the last few weeks, and i have
to learn how to be more accepting, and realize her school
and child/family are priorities... when she's ready to let me
into their life, i'll be happy with it..

i know its early, but i've already mentioned the idea of
her moving in with me next year at some point... lets
see what happens.. it would be a lot better for her,
if she can let go of a lot of things from her past..

thanks for the advice.. its a lot of work, but we're trying
to make both of our lives better..

be seeing you
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