http://www.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/10/...ers/index.html
See, my problem with this is, as stated in thread title(oh shit, I messed up that now, should read "they"), so many are always so curious(or nosey, you choose) to ask in so many different ways without REALLY coming right out and saying, "Are you gay?".
The person being asked is left in yet another Catch-22 situation. If they lie, they must be ashamed. If they don't really answer, they must be ashamed.
I just don't fucking know...