ok ... wow - I get to finally boast about this!!! (this happened like 2/3 years ago, and it has NEVER come up in an appropriate venue)
I actually dated a stripper.
yes, for a couple of months
although - I should clarify, she had stopped stripping by the time we dated, but she and I were friends for quite a while when she was still working. It was kind of one of those deals where she had this real dick of a boyfriend, and we'd go running or hangout all the time (not knowing that we both had a thing for each other)
we eventually broke up b/c she lived in Chicago, I lived in DC... and it got a bit stressful. We still hung out quite a lot... until she started dating this Egyptian guy (as in - he came to the US from Egypt for school) who outright forbade her from speaking to me... which totally sucks

[and like... when we have been in social situations with mutual friends, we can talk - if the douche isn't there.. but like there can be
no candid photos that happen to have both of us in them
but anyways... about tracks for a show ->
American Gigolo III - Mixed & Compiled By Princess Superstar
International Deejay Gigolos CD Ten - an unmixed compilation by Dj Hell (tons of tracks that you could use for a darker fashion/art show... trust me)
another album with a bunch of use-able tracks would be Zombie Nation - Black Toys
and individual tracks...
Prince - Erotic City
the Rakes - We Danced Together (SebastiAn Remix)
Klaxons - The Bouncer (South Central Bootleg)
Simian Mobile Disco - It's the Beat
New Young Pony Club - The Bomb (phones edit)
pretty much anything you can get by Surkin, Boys Noize, Digitalism, MSTRKRFT (especially their remixes of otehr bands)